Happy Birthday to you

     My son turns 15 tomorrow at 7:11 in the evening.  I drove myself to the hospital-this is something to brag about.  He’s turned out to be a smart, handsome, and very humorous young man.  He is also a wiseacre and quite often too smart for his own good.  I am glad he is still curious about the world and he has his own unique outlook.  I whipped him up a homemade angel food cake for dessert tomorrow night.  He asks for the same cake every year and sometimes I’ve purchased it (really, really short on time) and sometimes I’ve made it from a box (just a little short on time)-a few times though I’ve made it from scratch and this year peaceful girl helped me out.  She was a little miffed that I didn’t let her crack any of the twelve eggs but I explained that I needed each and every one of the egg whites to be separated just right from the yolk.  She helped with lots of other parts though and it is now successfully in the oven.  I still have to wrap a few of his gifts and then I will be reclining to finish Look Again.

     I still have to write about She’s So Dead To Us by Kieran Scott and Little Bee by Chris Cleave.  I had a post composed in my mind about my experiences at the Reading Conference I attended last Friday-and I promise to get all those done.  Today my thoughts are focused on this almost monumental birthday celebration.  It is only almost monumental because 16 is hanging in the air so close I can feel it in my bones-that, and he reminds me of it frequently.  This child is in a hurry to drive and we differ on many topics but mostly this one.  It terrifies me to have my baby alone in the car driving off, me waving!  I say-Hell, No!!!  So somehow after tomorrow I have 365 days to get adjusted to that or convince him the laws have simply changed.  It will help ease my worries that it will be required of him to keep his GPA up in order to get said licence but you can see my fear. 

So tomorrow say a little prayer for me as we wish this little boy a very
 happy 15th year of life and as we cut that delicious angel food cake (dipping it into chocolate sauce)
I’ll be wishing this year to slowly creep by, like the year of the turtle!

Look Again-Teaser Tuesday

Teaser Tuesdays is a weekly bookish meme,
 Anyone can play along!
 Just do the following:
  • Grab your current read
  • Open to a random page
  • Share two (2) “teaser” sentences from somewhere on that page
  • BE CAREFUL NOT TO INCLUDE SPOILERS! (don’t give too much away- don’t ruin the book for others!)
  • Share the title & author, too, so that other TT participants can add the book to their TBR Lists if they like your teasers!

Here’s my teasers:

“El, here are my famous last words.  You’re single, he’s single, and life is short.  I say, go for it.” p 19
Look Again( 2009) by Lisa Scottoline
***This is supposed to be my” fluff” book after the very gritty Little Bee by Chris Cleave, which I loved but needed something a llittle easier.  I’m totally enthralled by this tale of a mother who discovers reasons to question her adoption of her three-year-old son, Will. 

Thinking

     I am a member of two book clubs, one that meets with food and wine and the other is three of us, meeting through letters and emails.  Both groups are reading Little Bee by Chris Cleave.  The in-person group met this past Monday  night and I wasn’t able to go.  My wee girl had gymnastics and my teenager had an at-home soccer game.  I make it to every home game I can because, well, because I want to be there.  My husband had a theatre group performing at the exact same time these other events were going on so I didn’t make it to book club or yoga for that matter.  Life is crazy busy and wonderful! 
     I digress as this post isn’t about how busy my Monday was but my reading of Little Bee!  The only reason book club comes into the conversation is that I’m sad I was not there to be part of the conversation about this book.  I’m not ready to review it yet as I still have three chapters to go but last night I went to a very casual fund-raiser for our local food bank and ran into another book club member.  I asked her about Little Bee and what she thought.  She said she wasn’t quite finished with it but she didn’t like it.  I was a little shocked!  It is well-written and she is a retired English teacher but there was more to it.  She said from the very beginning she was hesitant because she knew it was going to have yucky stuff in it.  Yucky stuff being the real life trauma Little Bee and other immigrants experience-first in their own countries and then again trying to immigrate.  I’m not picking on my book club friend but it did start me to thinking; Are some books just to real???  Too gritty!!  Too filled with the reality of how harsh our world is?? 
     I love the story Chris Cleave tells-it is fiction yet the horrors of her experience are very real.  I also loved Ismael Beah’s A Long Way Gone; memoirs of a boy soldier!  Do your prefences run towards gritty?  Or do you prefer milder fiction?  Not so much real life mixed into your fiction?  Just curious…

Little Bee-Teaser Tuesday

Teaser Tuesdays is a weekly bookish meme,
Anyone can play along! Just do the following:
  • Grab your current read.
  • Open to a random page
  • Share two (2) “teaser” sentences from somewhere on that page
  • BE CAREFUL NOT TO INCLUDE SPOILERS! ( You don’t want to give too much away! You don’t want to ruin the book for others!)
  • Share the title & author, too, so that other TT participants can add the book to their TBR Lists if they like your teasers!
Here is my teaser for today:
From Little Bee by Chrise Cleave

I will tell you what happened when the taxi driver came.  The four of us girls, we were waiting outside the Immigration Detention Centre.  We were keeping our backs to it, because that is what you do to a big gray monster who has kept you in his belly for two years, when he suddenly spits you out.  You keep your back to him and you talk in whispers, in case he remembers you and the clever idea comes into his mind to swallow you all up again. p. 50
There are beautifully poignant sentences on each page of this book so it was tough to choose. 
Happy Reading~

Brilliant Art Work

My 7-year-old daughter did a painting project last Friday.  Her inspiration for the project was based on a book we read together-The Imaginary Garden by Andrew Larsen; a fantastic book about a girl and her grandfather who create an apartment garden with paints instead of seeds.  I brought the book home from school two weeks ago and we read it together.  I guess the book affected her more than I knew.  My husband has extra canvases at work and it was something she worked out with him.  She painted it for her room, above her bed where she recently asked for the old print of a Maxfield Parrish to be taken down.  I was a little crushed as I love Parrish’s work but we took it down.  Apparently she had other plans-her very own plans-for that wall space! Before she unveiled it on Friday night 

We never know as educators and/or parents what book will touch a child in a certain way…it is an amazing marvel when they have a positive reaction and send that love back out into the world.  I’ve commissioned her to paint another one for my room.  Isn’t her painting lovely…her own imaginary garden!  Don’t you just love it…

Kids Can Press synopsis of The Imaginary Gardenclick here.

The Homeschool Liberation League

(2009)

Interesting book: great title,deep characters, extremely interesting topic. 
What do you do if your kid is bored out of their mind at school?  What if
that child seems to be self-motivated at home
learning about plants and animals all on their own?  Homeschooling, unschooling, or regular schooling-which path do you choose? 
 This book eventually makes the case that there are many
different answers to that question.

     Kaity, after a summer trip to Wilderness Camp, turns herself into” Katya” and decides to take herself out of school- on her very first day back!  She leaves, walks out, on a day when many students are excited to see their friends, show off new school wardrobes and be a part of something but not Katya.  She heads back home where she hides out in her treehouse for most of the day.   Katya puts together a massive binder of researched information about schools and homeschooling as well as her reasons for wanting this so much and shares it with her parents-begging to be allowed to stay home and learn what she wants to learn.  After meeting with the principal, the parents become frustrated with the school system as well so they decide to give it a try.

 Along the way Katya meets Milo, a H.S. neighbor and young violin prodigy.  Milo doesn’t want to be homeschooled any more because his dad is overbearing about the whole practicing, studying thing. 
Several middle school and high school students who homeschool hate it…
they fight to go to school while Katya fights for one year of freedom. 

There is very real conflicting feelings in the story.  It is tough to wonder, with one decision, am I going to ruin my child’s life?  I liked the emotion the book brought out in me yet I didn’t love the book.  Katya was screechy and drove me a little crazy but I also think that is how a middle school girl might be.  I think I was like that-everything very dramatic!!  I think I would like to read another Lucy Frank book to do a little compare and contrast.  I don’t homeschoo lmy own children and I do teach in the public school system but I am a fan of homeschooling as a good friend taught me homeschooling fits a variety of purposes.  My previous idea was more along the lines of parents trying hard to shelter their children from the reality of the world-don’t read “To Kill a Mockingbird” or “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” -you know. 

My favorite quote:

 “I thought you loved school,” I lied.  “You’re Francesca Halloran, star of everything.  Teachers love  you, kids love you.  Everyone wants to be you.  You always have that sparkly, sprightly, spunky, everything is so fun and easy and interesting, I-live-for-school…You always know what you’re doing-“
Her look reminded me of Milo.  “Did you hear anything I said before?  That doesn’t mean I like it.  I’m just good at it.  It’s a game, Katya.  So I play to win, okay?  I’m so good at playing it, most of the time I don’t even know it is a game.” Her eyes shone with feeling.  “But you said no, I’m not playing.  I can’t do it.  I really admire that.” p. 187

     One of the themes I loved in the book was the idea of being true to yourself and both Katya, Milo and Francesca learn to stand up for what it is they really want. Just as it would be in real life, the hardest part was convincing parents that their children were mature enough to know themselves! 
  I discussed the book this afternoon with my friend (yes, the homeschooling mama) and she thinks it would make a great reading choice for the parents of her H.S. group!  It will be interesting to hear what they think!

Recommended-Middle Grade Fiction
3.5 /5 peaceful stars
Other Reviews:
and Jessica at Kiss the Book
***Library Book Project***

Fairy Tale Fridays

     Tif Talks Books hosts Fairy Tale Fridays and since I love fairy tales and I’m doing a fairy tale unit with 2nd grade I like to particpate.  This week I found a fantastic book of fairy tales in my library-that I must have ordered last year and must not have had a chance to crack the cover.  There’s a Wolf at the Door; Five Classic Tales retold by Zoe B. Alley, with pictures by R.W. Alley is the perfect combination of old school tale with a few funny twists to keep things lively.  The illustrations are comic book style with little arrows (every once in awhile) to help young ones find their way, their own bread crumbs, trailing through the book.  The five tales include The Three Little Pigs, The Boy Who Cried Wolf, Little Red Riding Hood, The Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing, and The Wolf and the Seven Little Goslings.  I’ve explored the first few and plan to take it home as my peaceful girl loves anything Little Red Riding Hood.  I’ll leave you with an excerpt:
Blake (the third little pig) threw an apple as hard as he could at the wolf, hit him smack on the head, and ran for home.  Surprised and hurt to the core, the wolf realized he’s been tricked again. p. 4

It’s funny and I will have a great time sharing one of these stories with 2nd grade students next week. Students will also love how tall the book is!   For now I’m heading home to blog hop without my school filter getting in the way!!  Happy Friday!
School Library Journal’s thoughts on There’s a Wolf at the Door.

Book Blogger Hop

Jennifer at Crazy-for-books hosts a book blogger party. 
It’s about socializing and finding new blogs out there.  Whenever I research a book I’m always amazed at the variety and amount of blogs out there in the massive outer world.  So hop around and see what you find.
 I love that it’s on Friday-like FAC (Friday Afternoon Club) for bloggers, a way to meet and greet other book lovers. 
Maybe later I’ll be able to blog hop on my patio with a margartia in hand! 
Hop, Hop, Hippity, Hop!! 

Making connections

     I’ve had kind of a depressing day.  Sometimes the field of education can be so amazing and other days-total Debbie Downers!  Makes me want to open a bookstore where every day would be blissful.  I (helped:) clean my daughter’s room tonight and she wanted to count our blessings while we cleaned.  I believe she was trying to cheer me up-love that empathy gene kicking in here and there. 
This minute I’m feeling blessed to have fresh daffodils on my table in a ruby red vase.  I’m also feeling blessed that tomorrow is Friday.  Woo-hoo! 

Story time this week for 1st graders involved two stories that I loved and that connected well together.  I love when I can find pairs of picture books that compliment each other.

     We read about pets in Stephanie Stuve-Bodeen’s book, A Small Brown Dog with a Wet Pink Nose( 2010)-it’s just fun to say and the kids loved saying it with me as it becomes a refrain in the book.  Not every read-aloud fits my style as I ‘m not good with a million different voices.  I can do a few but have a hard time switching back and forth but this one worked for me and made the kids giggle and smile…and isn’t that what we are really going for anyway!  Amelia really, really wants a dog but her parents keep saying no!  She asks every day then turns around and changes the questions on them.  She stops asking for a dog and starts asking them questions related to dog care.  Oh, it has some fun twists and I greatly enjoyed watching some quick students with their a-ha faces.  A-ha faces really light up, another thing we are looking for as teachers as well.  This book was a win/win!  I had to stop in the middle and explain Amelia’s imaginary dog-but it made for an interesting conversation.  Linzie Hunter’s illustrations gave the students much to stare at as they are filled with more than just the story.

     I matched it with one of my favorite author’s Margie Palatini’s The Perfect Pet(2003)!  Also about a young girl (Elizabeth) who wants a pet, any pet-doesn’t even have to be a dog!  She has a variety of techniques to get her parents to say yes to a pet.  There’s the element of surprise, catching them off guard, or the full stomach…her parents continue to say no to each and every pet she suggests until she discovers an animal already in the house, ready to be a pet!  Hilarious.  The illustrations are wonderfully drawn by Bruce Whatley-at first I didn’t like how the parents were drawn-very square looking parents considering their very unique-looking Elizabeth but of course, makes sense-they are anti-pet!!  Elizabeth is the true star in this picture book!

What connections did you make this week?