How is it August already?

This summer is flying by…

Even when I was a young school girl I knew that as soon as August rolled around it wouldn’t be long before school started again. I love summer.  I like to have equal time to relax and get things done in a very balanced summer way. This summer I’ve not had as much downtime as I would have liked. The one day I had time to lay in the hammock and read I broke the hammock trying to get Ruby the dog in with me! Luckily the crash was soft as the tree trunk timbered slowly down and didn’t hit me.


I spent my birthday weekend with Groovy Girl, her BFF Katy and Katy’s mom, Beth in St. Charles, IA for Hinterland Music Festival. We saw Hozier, Kacey Musgraves, Jason Isbell, Brandi Carlile, The Wood Brothers, Jade Bird, Maggie Rogers, and St Paul and the Broken Bones just to literally name a few. I had so much fun listening to music under the sun and the moon.

(Hozier)

We camped and thankfully it didn’t rain. Camping in the rain is just not fun yet the weekend was super sunny and we all about suffered from heat stroke. Sunday afternoon we took a little break and headed into Winterset for a little lunch and a lot of air conditioning. We found a wonderful Mexican restaurant open and then found the Winterset Cidery where we relaxed with a flight of delicious ciders and a game of cards with the girls. Once we soaked up enough cool air we headed back to the festival to hear the last 4 musical acts. Maggie and Brandi were the last two singers and they were both amazing performers. Brandi is a natural storyteller and I love how she openly shares about her family.

I’ve had two teacher-librarian meetings this week and have a bunch of projects to work on before school begins.  I’m going to have to cut out my summer naps from now on I guess. I still have a lot of books on my to-read stack (but really – who am I kidding-that stack grows more than it dwindles!)

Happy last weeks of summer..

Rainy days

It is rainy today and this weekend it snowed. Anything is possible weather-wise right now. School is winding down with just a little over a month left.  We had our last dance competition weekend and are now looking forward to recital on May 18th. Dance will be over for another year for Groovy Girl and next year will be her last at this studio. Wow. What a chapter. 

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Meanwhile we celebrated our son’s 24th birthday with vegan pizza at a local pizza place.  He had vegan, we had vegetarian.  I understand how my parents felt when as a 13-yo I gave up meat and harped on them to follow suit. Our son admonishes us for not turning vegan for the planet. I say I gave up straws for the planet and have always lived a life thoughtful of animals but of course he feels we could go that one greater leap. I say the cheese sucks. Seriously vegan cheese is not for me. I’d rather not have cheese. On the upside I always still ask for a piece of his pizza as he is king of picking great toppings.

The next night we had amazing Thai food at Exotic Thai in Davenport, IA. Yes, it can happen; delicious and diverse food flavors here. I had a pumpkin curry that was amazing. I ate the whole bowl and wanted more. My husband had a coconut curry soup that was equally as good; he ate every last drop.  We had a busy two days watching dance and eating good food yet we carved out a few minutes on Saturday night to go to the mall. Groovy Girl is finding her own way to be green and wants to buy recyled/2nd hand clothes, especially jeans so we spent about an hour at Ragstock as she picked through the racks to find a few selections. I’ve always loved second hand shopping so it’s rewarding to see her make this choice on her own.

I bought three pots of herbs today at the grocery store. I’m ready for planting.  It’s going to need to get just a little warmer but for now they look great on my kitchen table right near the window and they smell intoxicating. While it warms up I’ve been busy reading Their eyes were watching God by Zora Neale Hurston for book club and I just started something new recommended by a student (he even gave me his copy) by Taran Matharu called The Novice~high fantasy and I’ve read several chapters tonight right after I made a delicious soup for the family.

What a beautiful day

It’s my birthday.  All day.  I still like my birthday. This morning I did a gray hair check and I still don’t have any, much to my husband’s irritation.  I’m in the age range where there should be at least a few and it’s not like I’ve had a completely stress-free life. I’ve not. Family and financial problems are always near.

Here are a few things I’d like for my birthday:

1. Hydro Flask – In researching water bottles I decided stainless steel is the way to go. I’ve had several glass bottles and both broke within a short amount of time.  I’m not a huge fan of drinking out of plastic but my Tupperware bottle from Target has lasted the longest.  I like that stainless will keep my cold water cold just as my Cup of Joe stainless keeps my hot water + lemon hot for long time.

2. Black Dansko clogs – My last pair’s heel broke at the end of the school year which was really unfortunately. These are my go to shoes for just about any casual event or school. At some point I’d love to have a funky pair as well but for now I’m happy with the classic.

3. Birkenstocks – I’m on my 3rd pair and Groovy Teen is a recent convert. My black pair of clog style are really worn down and I’d like to trade them in for a brown pair of suede two straps.  So comfortable.

As you can see my feet are very important and I’m happy wearing sandals well into September or October weather-permitting. Plus I like quality over quantity.

4. Pink cocktail ring from Sundance – I have two beautiful rings from Sundance and I’d like to add this one to my finger.

5. Books, Books, Books – I was able to browse today at one of my favorite bookstores, Politics and Prose.  Day is complete. I didn’t even buy anything for myself.

Except tonight we eat at Jewel of India so my day is far from finished.

I’m happy with hand made cards and hugs from my kids though. And considering we are on the East Coast visiting family I’ll happily take hugs from everyone.

Wisdom through the years…

My dad’s birthday today. Sorry he’s not here with us.  He is a reminder to me all the time of how short life is. I miss him often-
Appreciate the people around you who help you, give you strength, buy you new tires when you really need them and you had a baby instead. My dad was a very understanding sort of guy. He gave my husband good advice before we were married: “Love her and take her where she wants to go…”  My husband does that mostly and he’s a great driver while I read in the passenger seat. A win-win for me. 
(Boating-circa 1970’s)
When Bush took office the first time I had a negative bumper sticker (something about the red party and their intelligence) on my station wagon and he reminded me not to lump a whole group of people together; that it wasn’t fair.  I removed the bumper sticker and found one that was more peaceful and kind thus more thoughtful. He’s right, of course, and I keep thinking about that pearl of wisdom but I’m still struggling with this post-election. I just won’t add it to my bumper.  I’m already tired of the massive flag-waving that is happening right now in my own “River City”. 
I’ll try to keep my cool but I cannot say all will be fine. It won’t be.
Today though I’ll honor my dad and focus on two little spitfire nieces who were born on this exact day-two little dreamers who could easily run the country one day. I hope we don’t have to wait that long but we need to keep raising them thoughtfully so they will be ready.  

Groovy Girl turns 14

{G.G. and her brother}

Seriously no way. It just can’t be possible that my baby born 3′ 4 ” is now my height and can wear my shoes if she likes them.

{G.G.and her big sis Kalila}

She is a blessing and a miracle. She is lovely and wonderful. She is also disorganized, somewhat spastic, and slightly irresponsible. Yet she keeps track of her contacts~still a mystery to me. Those are all characteristics of hers that are just part of what makes her who she is. Her college roommate will have to help her find her phone, she will probably be the girl turning cartwheels across the quad, happy that she still wears her Nike Pros underneath her dresses and I know she will find someone out there who loves her for all those quirky attributes.

What I dislike are people who make those qualities a negative for her. She had some amazing teachers in elementary school and one of them in particular clarified to me how some kids are just like that; creative, forgetful, absent-minded yet delightful.  Not a negative. I used to feel like I had to apologize a bit for her ability to stray. Her teacher’s words to me after Groovy Girl had lost a school project was simply one of reassurance and I’ve tried to stick with that method.  She is who she is and I am grateful for her kind smile every day.

Happy 14th birthday Groovy Girl~you are an amazing child/young woman/daughter.

It's August! My month to rule like a queen.

My birthday is tomorrow (two days ago now)!  While birthdays don’t hold the same excitement as I’ve aged-it’s still fun to have your own big day

Reflecting back on other birthdays that were full of flair I remember one party that involved our big blue boat, about 9 friends, and our small town yacht club (it did have a swimming pool).  We boated and swam and ate cake.  It remember the joy and the excitement of turning another year older.

I remember another birthday where I felt full of frustration.  The day had been a boring one; no breakfast in bed, friends, or party plans and THEN my mom made me go take a nap.  What!?  Crazy.  I wasn’t a baby or even a toddler anymore.  I wish she’d have thought of some other method of distraction but no, off to my room I was sent.  After a couple of hours I was summoned back down where a surprise party had been arranged.  It was fun and I knew that was why I had been sent to bed so party preparations could be made; it was just so unfair to take a nap on what, for kids, is right next to Christmas in celebrations.

Now I’d pay money to have a good nap on my birthday, to be sent to my room for quiet time.  And luckily on my day I did get about 2 hours to just read in the sunshine on my patio.  I also had breakfast in bed, an hour of fun at our local pool, and a lovely dinner out with teenage boy/college son/making his own way young man, Groovy Girl, and handsome husband. After dinner older brother took Groovy Girl home so we could walk down the street for a cocktail with friends.  It was a beautiful day and I didn’t mind turning another year older because I think this year could be the best year ever.  Really.  Lots to look forward to and many things to accomplish.  All I have to do is do it.  So cheers to a new year to check things off my list.

Weekend Cooking: Who doesn't love cake? A Tangle of Knots by Lisa Graff offers cake.

Groovy Girl recently had a very big birthday.  She turned 12 on the 12th of September.  She’s growing up…I dislike it, I love it-it depends on the day.  She’s taking 7th grade in stride, a few bumps along the way.  For example, she forgot her phone at school, in a classroom.  Couldn’t get a hold of her for about 35 minutes after school.  So frustrating yet we joked about it on our way home. We walked home from school hand in hand and then shared a cupcake when we got home.  Much of life is grand.

Back to the major birthday party.  For two years she’s been awaiting this golden birthday and she’d requested a hotel sleepover party for this illustrious event.  We went hotel shopping in early August to check out their lobbies, their pools, and how they made us feel.  The Hilton Garden Inn won hands down as the pool was warm and they had a lovely outdoor area with twinkling lights and fire pits.  The deal was sealed.  I made two reservations.  The price was pretty reasonable.

I asked her if she wanted cupcakes from our local cupcakery that is so popular.  She said “NO” flat out. “We always make my cake, mama!” she said.  I asked her to look for a recipe.  Weeks went by and then as I was reading an Iowa Children’s Choice possible title A Tangle of Knots by Lisa Graff I found the cake!  It spoke to me because it combined some of her favorite things…chocolate and more chocolate and she loves s’mores! I rushed upstairs to share my discovery and she was like “mm-maybe-” followed by a “maybe” and a little shoulder shrug.  Hmmm.  I stuck with it though and we gave it a try.

Will’s S’more Cake
-a cake that always disappears quickly-

For the cake:
small spoonful of flour, for preparing the cake pans
14-oz package of graham crackers (about 26 crackers)
2 tsp baking powder
1 cup butter (2 sticks) **always use unsalted as it is fresher** at room temperature
2 cups granulated sugar
5 large eggs, at room temperature
2 tsp good vanilla
1 cup milk, at room temperature

For the frosting:
1 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips
3/4 cup butter (1 1/2 sticks) room temperature
1 1/2 cups powdered sugar
1/3 cup sour cream, at room temperature
pinch of salt

For the filling:
1 large cup marshmallow fluff
(I did NOT say this cake was healthy in anyway)

For the topping:
extra graham crackers and/or mini-marshmallows **she opted for studding it with chocolate chips**

1. Preheat oven to 350*F. Lightly grease the bottoms of two 8-in. round cake pans with butter.  Using the cake pans as a template, trace two circles onto wax paper (I used parchment paper) and cut them out, placing once circle inside each pan.  Sprinkle the inside of the pans lightly with flour, and tap the pans to distribute it evenly.

2. Place graham crackers in a blender or food processor, and grind until crushed to a fine powder.  (Alternatively, place the graham crackers in a plastic ziplock bag and crush them with a rolling pin which is exactly what Groovy Girl did as it sounded more fun!)  Measure out 3 cups of the cracker powder into a medium bowl, and mix with the baking powder.  Set aside.  Reserve the remaining graham cracker powder to decorate the top of the cake, if desired.

3. In a large bowl, cream the butter and granulated sugar with an electric mixer, starting on low speed then increasing to medium-high, until light and fluffy, about 3-5 minutes.  Add the eggs one at a time, beating well after each addition. Blend in the vanilla.

4. Reducing the speed on the mixer to low, add about a third of the graham racker mixture to the batter, combining well.  Add about half of the milk and combine.  Then add another third of the graham cracker mixture, the last of the milk, and then the last of the cracker mix, combining well each time.

5. Pour the batter into the two pans, smoothing the surface.  Bake for 35-40 minutes, or until a toothpick comes out clean.  Let the cakes cool completely before frosting.

6. While the cakes are baking, make the frosting; In a double boiler or a heatproof boil fitted into a saucepan of simmering water, carefully melt the chocolate chips over low heat, stirring often.  Remove from heat and allow to cool, about 10-15 minutes.

7. In a large bowl, cream the butter with an electric mixer fitted with clean beaters on medium speed until fluffy, about 2-3 minutes.  Reducing the speed on the mixer to low, gradually add the powdered sugar and beat until smooth, another 2-3 minutes.  Add the cooled chocolate, sour cream, and pinch of salt, and beat to combine.

8.  When the cakes are completely cooled, place one cake layer on a plate and spread marshmallow fluff on top.  If fluff is difficult to spread, microwave it in a glass bowl first for 10-20 seconds and stir.)  Place the second cake layer on top and frost the whole cake with the chocolate frosting.  Decorate with graham cracker crumbs or mini marshmallows.   (44-46)

Almost everyone at the party loved the cake, the flavor was great and it was nice and dense.  I would make this one again with some minor adjustments.  We brought part of the cake home and we’ve all been sneaking bites here and there and we’ve also shared a few pieces Grandpa Roger style; in a bowl with some milk.  The best. Thanks Dad.  Miss you.

A Tangle of Knots by Lisa Graff has some memorable moments but the plot was a bit scattered for me. The cakes and Cady’s story were the very best part though and I wanted Cady to find a good permanent home with Miss Mallory.  Cady has a knack for baking and it was fun to read about how she created cakes for those around her.  Thank you Ms. Graff for giving us a wonderful birthday recipe!

Breakfast or brunch, whichever.

{Ree’s photo, not mine)

My husband would love it if I cooked like Ree Drummond most of the time. He’s a fried chicken, grits, biscuits and gravy kinda guy.  I made him a homemade plateful using a recipe for biscuits and gravy I found on her website.  There were delicious.  I’m more of a vegetarian, salad, healthy-type eater so we balance each other out.  I’ve learned to appreciate something as hearty as this dish as long as it’s like eaten not more than once a year and made with high quality, local sausage like Beeler’s.

Last night we secretly made him a strawberry-rhubarb pie.  It is hiding in the cupboard waiting for tomorrow night.  I used frozen rhubarb from last summer’s crop and some berries my mom brought me the other day.  I don’t know where she got the berries and I’m not asking as they were big (and definitely NOT local) but perfect for this pie.  It’s his favorite.  I used to be afraid of making pies all because of sticky crusts.  My mother-in-law shared her recipe with me and I finally got the hang of making it.  Last night Groovy Girl and I worked happily together interlacing the pie crust to make a lattice top.

The pie was quite juicy I think because of the frozen rhubarb.  It has settled not and should be perfect for serving tomorrow night.  I always bake it on top of a cookie sheet which saved my oven this time as it leaked right up over the top.  

Here is the pie crust recipe so you to can feel pie-successful:

Phyllis’ Perfect Pie Crust


For a double crust pie:


2 cups flour
1 cup Crisco (today I used butter as I was out of Crisco)
1/4 tsp salt
1/2 tsp baking powder
1/2 cup cold water


Mix together dry ingredients, cut in Crisco with a pastry blender.  Pour in cold water and mix only enough to stick together.  Roll out one-half of the dough at a time for a double crust pie.  You can sprinkle top with sugar or cinnamon/sugar mixture.

Toss in your fruit of choice and bake.  The lattice top in the photo above does not look as good as we’ve done before but he is not going to care.  He is going to be delighted that I’m still willing to craft a pie for him! Why all this catering to the husband?  His birthday is tomorrow!

This post is linked to Beth Fish Reads Weekend Cooking meme.  Click on her link to find many other food-related posts.  Happy weekend.

Weekend Cooking; Fat chocolate chip cups

This has been quite a year for my school book clubs.  They’re organic matter constantly changing and shifting.  Generally I’ve had two book clubs and they start out large and then dwindle to a small handful of die-hard book fans that didn’t know they were fans when they started.  The whole process is amazing to me.

This year has brought new challenges as I started off bold with three groups; two girl groups and one boy group.  Luckily another 5th grade teacher has been willing to help me all year with the second girl’s group.  She took the stronger reading group and they’ve read a wide variety of challenging fifth grade material.  They just finished The Lightning Thief.  Now the gaggle of girls I lead is another story.  I like have to lead them like little baby lambs to the book. They are much more concerned about drama and excuses.  I’m trying to raise them up and they are all like “this is so hard” but yet they keep coming back.  I’ve had a few drop out and I’ve asked a few not to come back and yet we’ve had others join up mid-year and this is why is has been a very natural and organic book club year.

This has also been the first year we’ve served snacks consistently for every meeting.  Amanda, the 5th grade teacher, and I alternate bringing treats for the Wednesdays that the girls meet and I solely bring treats for the boys.  It is MUCH easier to bring treats for the boys!!  They about die for anything I bring for them which in turn make me excited to bring them treats.  It is a dynamite cycle.  The girls tend to be a bit more picky.  I made them little cookie cups near Christmas that had a chocolate mint kiss in the middle and several girls threw them away after just one bite because of the mint.  Geez!

This week I made these top notch treats from a recipe I found on Pinterest.  I love when  a pin takes you to to a blog worth reading and Averie Cooks is just such a blog.  The Browned Butter Chocolate Chip Cookie Cups were a huge hit at book club and the children I live with were a little upset that the whole pan wasn’t staying home with them.  The cool thing was it was such an easy recipe I’m going to surprise them this weekend with more.  This board of Averie Cooks is dedicated to recipes she’s made and I’m  especially intrigued by this post about her Top Ten Favorite Chocolate Cake recipes.  I’m searching this week for an extreme chocolate dessert for College Boy as he turns 18 next Sunday, the 28th.  His only requirement is that it be like chocolate heaven.
Any suggestions?

If you need a special treat this week try those chocolate cups!
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Weekend Cooking; Warm soup for cold weather

Mighty blasts of cold air-that’s what I’ve felt all Spring Break.  No tropical sun or sand sifting through my toes. We spent Spring Break right here in Iowa with a little weekend getaway to Minneapolis which was just as cold.  A freezing Spring Break gave me plenty of inspiration for soup, reading, and writing but zero inspiration for spring cleaning.  I cleaned one room over break.

College Boy (formerly Teenage Boy) -he does turn 18 this April and is almost finished with his freshman year so I think a name change is in order-anyway he spent most of the week enjoying Colorado so it was just Groovy Girl, Big Daddy, and me, all freezing together.  I whipped up two fantastic soup recipes to combat the cold.

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Chicken and Green Chili Stew
adapted from Super Suppers Cookbook 2
Judie Byrd

 2 whole chicken (organic or farm-raised) breasts or a small whole chicken
1 cup coarsely chopped onion
1 cup chopped red bell pepper
2 tsp minced fresh garlic
1 T cooking oil
1 4-oz can chopped green chilies, undrained
1 14 1/2-oz can diced tomatoes, undrained
4 medium potatoes, peeled and cubed
1 cup chopped carrot
1 tsp salt (or to taste)
1 tsp black pepper (to taste)

1. Place chicken in a Dutch oven; add enough water to cover chicken. Simmer, covered, 30 to 45 minutes or until meat is falling off the bone.  Remove chicken from the pan.  When cool, shred the chicken meat, set aside.  Reserve the cooking liquid.   I had two leftover breasts from another recipe that I’d tossed in the freezer so I just used those and skipped this step altogether.

2. In a large saucepan cook and stir onion, bell pepper, and garlic in hot oil over medium-high heat for 5 minutes.  Add the chicken, undrained chills, undrained tomatoes, potatoes, and carrots, simmer covered, 20 minutes.  Stir in enough reserved cooking liquid to reach desired consistency.  Add salt and black pepper.

My other alteration was to skip the green chilies because I had a half a can of green enchilada sauce from a Mexican dish I made last week so I added that instead.  It was perfect.  Groovy Girl will eat the mild enchilada sauce so I thought this was a safe yet flavorful trade-off.

Suggested sides: Tortillas, shredded lettuce, cheese, chips, or salsa.
We had a salad and some fresh bread from my mom.  All three of us loved this soup and the leftovers made an easy lunch the next day.

(Potato soup )

Because it stayed cold all week and I had time on my hands I made a potato soup two days later that was out-of-this-world delicious.  With a velvety texture this soup, served with more fresh toasted bread, kept us warm while the temperatures dropped outside.  Yes, the temps actually dropped during our break!  The potato soup recipe can be found here at Cooking from the seat of our pants website.

I could eat soup several times a week and I’ll definitely make both of these again.

In other news it’s my husband’s birthday and I cooked up a storm for him today.  We started our morning off with homemade biscuits and gravy from Bev Cooks blog.  Biscuits and gravy are my husband’s total weak spot and if we happen upon a diner this is exactly what he orders.  I’ve done the biscuits before for him and this time I made the gravy myself which was far superior (of course!) than the jarred stuff.  I need a bigger biscuit cutter but other than that the recipe was a huge hit.

My mom and step-dad made him a Guinness chocolate cake on St. Patrick’s Day so I made him chocolate chip cookies for an afternoon treat today.  I tried a new recipe and  I loved how soft and chewy they were.  I found it on Pinterest and was happy to see it originally came from KA Flour.

Spring Break comes to an end this weekend (Groovy Girl is already sobbing about this) but I’m cool with it.  There are still so many activities to do with my students and hopefully Spring is around the corner…although the word on the street is that snow is predicted for tonight and tomorrow.  Seriously.

Have a mighty peaceful day!

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