The Choice: Embrace the Possible

 Dr. Edith Eva Eger’s memoir is a deep look into what it was like to live through extreme trauma and survive. At 16 Edith was sent to Auschwitz and was herded into one line with her sister and watched as her mother was pushed into another line, one of death. Edith and her sister Magda fight one minute, one hour, one day to make it through their ordeal together. In four parts, Prison, Escape, Freedom, and Healing, Dr. Eger’s shares with us what her own experience was like as well as patients she has worked with who have been imprisoned in other ways. She lets her journey be the guiding force to helping others. I enjoyed her family story very much, as well as her work with patients. Several of the patient accounts made me cry.  It is always difficult to read first hand accounts of the Holocaust; the details overwhelming, and painful. I highly recommend her story and want everyone to read it. It’s an critical reminder of how important our freedom is and that we should never take it for granted. 

I’ve discovered that I’m baking more these days and I think it is a stress-reliever. Baked goods for mental health! I made this delicious Czech breakfast cake one morning and shared it with friends and another day I woke up really early and made this French apple cake (Once upon a chef) for a trip to Iowa City to see Groovy Girl (Groovy College Student?). I will make both again. I’ve discovered a new little recipe spot on Bon Appetit called It’s Just that Simple! It’s like family recipes that they just talk you through as if they are telling you a recipe over coffee. I made the Desi Omelette one night for a quick dinner and a Korma recipe another night. It’s my kind of easy recipe site-like I’m getting them from friends. 

(French Apple Cake)

Reading three books: Untamed by Glennon Doyle, my friend Angelle’s book, Wrong guy, right room, a fun romance book-find it here on Amazon, and The Guest List by Lucy Foley.  

Be safe out there. Wear your mask. Stay positive. Do everything you can to get out the vote. Last night’s debate was even more proof that our current leader is completely unstable. 

2019 books in review

I’ve read an amazing amount of great literature this year. It was a treat to look back and reminisce about each book on my GoodReads account and it is my hope that I can inspire one reader to pick up at least one of these fabulous books.  I prefer fiction over nonfiction so I surprised myself with three fantastic memoirs this year.  Leonard Pitts has an excellent article “This is the Year of Reading Women” in order to push himself to read more works by women. I am glad to say looking through my lists women authors continue to take a lead for me. 




Nonfiction:

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Becoming by Michelle Obama

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Shortest Way Home by Pete Buttigieg

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Educated by Tara Westover

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The gifts of imperfection by Brene Brown

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Better than carrots or sticks; restorative practices for positive classroom management by Dominique Smith

Fiction:

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Daisy Jones and the Six by Taylor Jenkins Reid

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Where the crawdads sing by Delia Owens

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Salvage the bones by Jesmyn Ward

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Heads of the colored people by Nafissa Thompson-Spires

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The Bar Harbor retirement home for Famous Writers (and their muses) by Terri-Lynne DeFino

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The Story of Arthur Truluv by Elizabeth Berg

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Helen Hoang’s book’s  The Kiss Quotient and The Bride Test

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Sally Rooney’s Normal People and Conversations with friends

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Less by Andrew Sean Greer

Young Adult/Children’s Fiction:

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Gracefully Grayson by Ami Polonsky

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Front Desk by Kelly Yang

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Scar Island by Dan Gemeinhart

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Louisiana’s Way home by Kate DiCamillo

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Look Both Ways by Jason Reynolds

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Summoner Series by Taran Matharu

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Wishtree by Katherine Applegate

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Here Lies the librarian by Richard Peck

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Walking with Miss Millie by Tamara Bundt

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Aru Shah and the end of time by Roshani Chokshi

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Amina’s voice by Hena Khan

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Merci Suarez changes gears by Meg Medina

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Amal Unbound by Aisha Saeed

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Ban this book by Alan Gratz

I’m so gratefully to work in a field where I enjoy the homework very much.  There are so many fantastic diverse authors out there now and I loved what I read in Amal Unbound, Are Shah, and Merci Suarez, Amina’s Voice, Ami Polonsky for Grayson, and Kelly Yang!  I hope 2020 brings as much joy reading.

River House; A Memoir by Sarahlee Lawrence

I picked this book up from the public library a few weeks ago and enjoyed reading Sarahlee’s story. At the start Sarahlee is in Peru preparing to raft a river with her friend Marco.  She’s always enjoyed the water, taking after her father in this regard, although his first love is the ocean.  Sarahlee applied for and received a grant right out of college allowing her to travel for a year to a variety of different rivers and she loves it but as she is running the rivers she begins to miss home.  She gets a letter from her dad that a family friend, Geraldine, has died and her dad is saving her woodstove for the time when Sarahlee builds her own home.  She also reads Ralph Waldo Emerson’s Waldo as she is traveling, which creates a longing for land as well. 

Her river images and her athleticism at manning the boats is an incredible part of her story but eventually she winds her way to Oregon and talks her dad into building a log home with her.  There is a lot of family history to understand; how her mother has always lived in this part of Central Oregon and is passionate about horses, how her father grew up on the beaches of California, surfing day in and day out and how all three of them are hearty, strong and determined. 

It is always difficult to move home after flying free for a few years of college but Sarahlee comes happily home, moves back into her old room and begins 12-15 hour work days, helping her dad with ranch chores and then planning, laying the groundwork and building her log home.  It’s exhausting and at times they struggle with all they try to juggle as a family.   She finds out a few personal things about her father and how he has and continues to struggle with daily life on the ranch. Their relationship as a family was interesting but I prefered the interactions between her and her mother.  Her mother was low-key and calm; not filled with such frenetic energy. 

I was drawn to this memoir because of the father/daughter relationship and Sarahlee and her father’s ties are strong but volatile, and eventually they learn to accept what is good about the other but it is a long journey together.  I  liked that Sarahlee strived to be intuned to nature, thinking about the placement of her home and how she cared about the earth around her.  What bogged me down was all the log cabin building lingo…I’m not a builder and I understand about as much as how Lincoln Logs notch together.  It was interesting but I found myself skimming some of the paragraphs about the house going up and the logs notching together just so.  I did fully understand how complicated and delicate of an operation it was. 

Checking out her website I discovered that she’s begun an organic vegetable farm and I would love to read more about this  project.  I’ve already recommended this book to several very outdoorsy friends and family as well as to other members of my Good Spirits Book Club.  Be forewarned; the book contains swearing and a lot of references to her father’s pot smoking and drinking habits. 

Find the author here –Sarahlee Lawrence.

Bill Bryson's The Life and Times of the Thunderbolt Kid; A Memoir

This book has been recommended by many friends and was my book clubs third  reading choice.  I didn’t read it then because I was busy reading other stuff!  I kept putting it off…then when Bibliophile By The Sea presented the Reading off my Shelves Project; this book made my list!  After reading Dreamland by Dessen I need a change of pace.  Jenners from Find Your Next Book Here highly recommended this choice so I picked it up and read it. 
I liked it far more that I thought I would…I’m not a huge fan of memoirs.  It made me think and laugh and I really enjoyed the historical time-travel aspect of Des Moines history.  I felt transported back to the 1950’s; a serene and innocent era of our history.  
Here’s one of the many “expand my knowledge” parts:
“Often, all that was necessary to earn America’s enmity, and land yourself in a lot of trouble, was to get in the way of our economic interests.  In 1950, Guatemala elected a reformist government-“’the most democratic Guatemala ever had,’ according to the historian Howard Zinn-under Jacobo Arbenz, an educated landowner of good intentions.  Arbenz’s election was a blow for the American company United Fruit, which had run Guatemala as a private fiefdom since nineteenth century.  The company owned nearly everything of importance in the country-the ports, the railroads, the communications networks, banks, stores, and some 550,000 acres of farmland-paid little taxes, and could count confidently on the support of a string of repressive dictators.” p. 133
 
He proceeds to inform how United Fruit took care of Jacobo Arbenz.  I loved learning these horrible historical facts  and thought Bryson did an amazing job of researching facts about this time period.  He discussed how  the Atomic Age impacted our lives-the fall-out (in my opinion) is something we are dealing with still!!  Mixed in with all these facts are humorous stories (like the toity jar, p. 19), hysterical looks at his family life and the greater world around him.  I loved the part about his paper route as I had brothers who suffered through the paper route ordeal and having to collect money from neighbors!  Bill Bryson’s website-click here.
As per Project I need to let you know where this one is going-I’m sending it to my brother in Denver, CO, who attended Drake University.  I think he will enjoy Bryson’s wit as well as the history of the city.

Highly Recommended/Memoirs
4/5 stars
Happy Reading!!!