More on being anti-racist…

I am continuing my journey to better understanding by watching and I want to share the most interesting with you.  We should keep learning and pushing ourselves while we actually work to dismantle the racist systems in place that keep people of color from succeeding at life. We need to push our schools, banks, city councils, police departments, landlords, and neighbors to do better. If you work in an area that should help more get your people on board.  If you are a parent, teacher or administrator you need to push for real change in what and how we teach. This video shares how students in the South were explicitly taught to respect the Confederate flag, and it’s so-called “heritage”.

Also I read this great article, When black people are in pain white people just join book clubs, by Tre Johnson in The Washington Post about how easily white people dismiss the struggle. I feel like I’m stuck in this myself by how much information I’m taking in yet in order to be a better ally and teacher I have to understand how and what to say. I was asked to be on our district’s equity committee, which I understand has been in place for years w/out getting much done, so we are still dealing with a lot of old/same hurt, outrage, and anger.

Teaching Hard History in K-5 is a webinar I watched from the Teaching Tolerance website, which is filled with valuable resources. This webinar already took place but if you register they will send you a link to it within a few minutes. I’m going to keep an eye on other webinars they may host as I would like to be part of the real-time Q/A

This video with Emmanuel Acho is helpful and he has several others to watch. I either stumbled upon this one or someone shared it on their FB feed.  It’s shocking that people still don’t understand the mental trauma and racist systems that Black people have experienced. This is one of many areas where the race has not been fair for generations. I encourage you to subscribe and take a look at each of his videos.

And one last one that I found on our list of resources for the school equity committee about micro aggressions. I love the dialogue that happens in this particular classroom. My head cannot wrap around things that people say out loud; like stop people and think before you speak and also how about a little mind-you-own-business! What would it look like to be more welcoming and accepting of people who don’t look just like you.

Be kind out there and seriously do better. There are many ways to get involved and help even if just by donating or making phone calls. 8 can’t wait is a great tool to help you. Breonna Taylor’s murderers are still out there and here is a good article talking about this. And Elijah McClain in Colorado. We need to stop this before the list continues to grow…
Thank you for continuing on this journey with me…

Beautiful October…

Greetings! I’ve had this blog post milling about in my head since October 1st and I just didn’t take the time to get it down in this format. It seems that is a tough leap to make for me some months.  The ideas are there yet they stay swirling around in my head. I’m making a promise to myself to do better; my goal for the month.

This month I took a class entitled It takes a Family from the Safe Schools Academy. The coursework was great and doable and part of one assignment was video chronicling an LGBT celebration at a Quaker school in New York. What a different world we would live in if every school could celebrate diversity this way. There are other classes I want to take from this group including one, On Wednesdays we wear pink: understanding the politics of girl world. Each class is only one graduate credit yet the interesting social justice issues are more relevant than many other grad credits. Each class I take leads me to something else, some other big moment in my constant life-long learner journey.

This video by Courtney Ferrell popped up while watching the Quaker school celebration.  I want to pass it along because it is just how I feel about empowering young woman. We all need to “Girl Up” ourselves so we can pass that deep love on to others in our families and community. But we can’t just “Girl Up”; we also have to Man Up because we cannot leave our young men behind allowing them to think they can make disrespectful decisions just because they are young, drunk, or just didn’t know better. It’s up to us to teach them to be an important connection in our community. We need to hold hands with other women to create change for ourselves. We also need to connect with men in a deeper way as well so we can be our allies.  What an amazing world we could live in if women and men learned to work together for the greater good-like real solutions for climate change instead of the male-dominated world we now try to exist in.  And it’s important to always have some mad money tucked in our bra just in case…

No disservice to Dr. Christine Blasey Ford at all because what she did was very brave but the girls of today need to speak up right away. Tell someone. This situation would look very different if Ford had shared this story with one adult or mentor. So women of today speak out to one adult, your roommate, someone at school so the facts are there. In this instance, the current administration wasn’t looking for a real solution but if one woman did have it on record of Kavanaugh’s behaviour his career would have looked very different.

This morning I shared the video with Groovy Girl and her response was “I know all that and it isn’t easy”-I agree but you have to keep trying.  Here’s another Courtney Ferrell TedTalk to keep you motivated and energized. I like how she empowers one person from the audience by bringing them into her space on stage. Have some kind of creative day today!

Kristen Bell's sloth obsession-hysterical!

This video has me laughing and laughing so I had to share.  I showed it to my teenager the other day and he hadn’t seen it yet which was a good sign.  Usually when I show him something I think is funny or new he tells me it is old news.  Enjoy and try not to repetively click on it.  I love Ellen and the fact that she fakes her out at the end is hysterical.